Family, Relational, and Youth Counselling

Comox Valley · Vancouver Island

Find your footing in the pressures of becoming.

Whether you're figuring out who you are, or who you are to each other — this is for you.

Who I work with

  • Families at a turning point

  • Parents facing the challenges of raising kids at any stage

  • Partners who aren't sure they're reaching each other anymore

  • Teens navigating identity and belonging

  • Young adults in the middle of a life transition

  • Parents and children navigating a relationship in transition

  • Siblings navigating their relationship with each other

  • Anyone not sure where to start

What we work on

  • Figuring out who you are and what you value

  • Anxiety, low mood, and what's underneath them

  • Relationships — family, romantic, friendship

  • Life transitions — starting over, leaving something behind

  • Identity and self-discovery

  • Communication and relational patterns

  • Grief, loss, and major life changes

  • The uncomfortable in-between of becoming

My practice is inclusive and affirming of all identities, orientations, and family structures 🏳️‍🌈

In-person in the Comox Valley.
Virtual sessions across BC.

General Session Info

  • 50-minute sessions · $140

  • Free 20-minute discovery call before your first session

  • Sliding scale available — offered on trust, no documentation required

  • Payment by credit card, e-transfer, or cash

  • Sessions are not currently covered by extended health benefits, even with a referral from a medical professional. Once I complete my licensing designation, I will be able to accept extended health benefits — anticipated Summer 2026.

  • Cancellations require 24 hours notice — late cancellations and no-shows are charged the full fee

A smiling man with long dark hair and a beard at an outdoor event, with tents and people in the background. Individual, relational & family counselling in the Comox Valley. In-person, virtual, walk therapy & home visits with Jacob Sandler, MPCC-P.

In some ways, I've been doing a version of this work my whole adult life.

For more than fifteen years, I worked as a waterfront lifeguard and beach supervisor, supporting teams of young people through long, busy days, and high-stakes situations.

More than the job itself, I remember watching young people discover what they were capable of under pressure. That experience shaped how I understand this age group more than anything else in my background.

Today, in addition to counselling, I work as a Child and Youth Support Worker in the Comox Valley, providing ongoing, one-on-one support to young people with complex needs in home, school, and community settings.

A few of the things I work with most:

Families don't stay still. When one person changes, everyone around them has to find a new way of relating. I work from the understanding that we rarely struggle in isolation.

Whether I'm sitting with a family, a relationship, or an individual, I'm paying attention to the system around them and how that web is shifting. Much of my work happens to involve young people and the social dynamics that shape them, and I bring that same relational lens no matter who's in the room.

Identity and self-discovery — figuring out who you are, what you value, and how you want to move through the world.

Life transitions — starting something new, leaving something behind, or being in the uncomfortable in-between.

Relational challenges — family dynamics, friendships, romantic relationships, and how you show up in all of them.

Anxiety and low mood — often part of the picture, but in my experience, rarely the whole story.

Ready when you are.

Comox Valley · Comox · Courtenay · Cumberland · Virtual across BC